A NEW study shows smartphones are killing romance.
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You don’t really have to be a rocket scientist to work that out.
In fact, smartphones and other technologies can be held accountable for not only ruining romance, but also the art of conversation, the family dinner table chats and even the Saturday afternoon catch-up with girlfriends.
According to the survey, romantic couples would rather use their smartphones than actually have a romantic encounter.
Modern technology has, indeed, transformed our world. Where would we be without Google to answer that tricky question about who played the lead role in that movie you were discussing, or which team won the 1957 VFL grand final?
Social media, in particular, has brought the world’s population closer together. It helps us stay informed on the latest happenings around the world. It keeps us connected to family and friends around the globe. It introduces us to new people. It makes us laugh and cry.
However, it seems the convenience of social media like Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat is at the detriment to conversation, particularly with those who should be held dearest.
Some parents of teenagers have lamented their children would rather communicate via text from the other end of the house than have face-to-face contact.
Chats around a cafe table on a Saturday afternoon are often stifled when most of those attending already “know” about the gossip being bandied around, thanks to already reading about it on Facebook or Instagram.
Some people are now taking a stand against all things social media and, indeed, modern technology, by declaring technology-free days or no phones at the dinner table policies. More and more people should be taking this stance in an effort to bring conversation back to the dinner table, romance back to the relationship and friend back into friendship.
Nothing will ever replace the art of real conversation. A smiley face emoji is no substitute for the real deal. And no smartphone will ever replace the hug a parent can give to their child.