TERMINAL illness is one of the toughest things individuals and families will ever experience.
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But making the process a little easier are the countless men and women who have dedicated their careers to palliative care.
One of those individuals is Carol Scott, a local nurse who decided to volunteer her time after initially caring for a close friend who suffered a stroke.
Most recently, Ms Scott has spent more than a year supporting Tamara Elisha, a woman dying of cancer.
With National Palliative Care Week starting on Sunday, Ms Elisha thanked all volunteers for their support.
“I’d really miss Carol if we didn’t meet,” she said. “With Carol, when I wasn’t driving, it was really helpful. I really like Carol and I look forward to her visits.
“A couple of times I wasn’t doing too well and Carol stepped right in and took me to the doctor ... people are very caring and it’s nice to have that in your life.
“We do need that type of energy when you’re going through something like this.”
Ms Scott said helping those who were dying was always tough but very rewarding.
“I’ve met some beautiful people, Tamara included, and I still remain friends with families even after their loved one has passed on – you just build a rapport with people,” she said.
“There’s a lot of trust when you walk into their house; it’s just fantastic and you can give of yourself. I enjoy it.”
Palliative Care Victoria chief executive officer Odette Waanders said the bond formed between volunteers and patients was special.
“Former strangers form close bonds, focus on the positives and make the most of life, knowing that the time remaining is precious,” she said.
patrick.byrne@fairfaxmedia.com.au